Reuben
11 year old Reuben enjoyed playing Fortnite, football and riding his bike. He is the oldest child to parents, Kulwant and Jess, and loved spending time with little brother, Hari and sister, Jia. After completing frontline treatment for high-risk neuroblastoma in 2018 and the bivalent vaccine clinical trial in America, Reuben sadly relapsed in April 2024.
Reuben’s story
Back in late 2016, Reuben was waking in the night with tummy pain and fevers for around six weeks. After an ultrasound, a suspicious mass was found in Reuben’s tummy, and his parents were told he had stage 4 high-risk neuroblastoma.
Treatment started immediately and Reuben received his first course of chemotherapy just one week later. Reuben spent his third and fourth birthdays, as well as countless other special days, in hospital receiving treatment, which included surgery, stem cell harvest, high-dose chemotherapy, stem cell transplant, 14 radiotherapy sessions and five rounds of immunotherapy. He also had countless bone marrow aspirates, trephines, MRI, CT and MIBG scans, ultrasounds, blood and platelet transfusions.
"One of the hardest decisions was putting Reuben through the gruelling treatments needed to save him, not really knowing what the long-term side effects would be," Reuben's dad, Kulwant.
“His smile and the moments of normal are undoubtedly what carried us all through some really difficult times. He is more precious than he'll ever know.”
Reuben's mum, Jess
Reuben completed frontline treatment and received the amazing news that he was cancer-free in January 2018. His family decided to fundraise to take him to New York to enrol on the bivalent vaccine clinical trial, in the hope it would keep his neuroblastoma away. Reuben completed the trial in 2019.
Relapse and further treatment
In April 2024, during a routine MRI scan, Reuben’s family were told the devastating news that he had relapsed, after being in remission since early 2018.
After receiving BIT chemotherapy treatment in Oxford, in August 2024 Reuben was enrolled on the Minivan trial in Southampton, a trial part funded by Solving Kids’ Cancer UK. During the trial Reuben unfortunately needed support from PICU where he was put on a ventilator and needed medications to help raise his blood pressure. While recovering from these side effects he suffered a further set back due to the inflammation caused by the immunotherapy drugs.
After discussions with his treating team, Jess and Kulwant withdrew him from the trial after completing 2 cycles, as it was identified that Reuben was reacting to the immunotherapy treatment. While still in Southampton, Reuben began to complain of headaches and blurred vision. After finishing dinner one evening his blood pressure raised significantly and he experienced 3 seizures, which required emergency sedation and ventilation.
His seizures were caused by a condition called Posterior reversible encephalopathy syndrome (PRES), an inflammation in his brain because of his body's reaction to the antibody drugs. Reuben needed to take anti-seizure and blood pressure medication regularly and have frequent platelet transfusions to minimise risk of bleeding.
Solving Kids' Cancer UK's children's fundraising campaigns
Funds raised will go towards helping Reuben and his family. If Reuben no longer needs the funds or is in remission five years post the end of successful treatment, the funds will be used to support other children and families affected by neuroblastoma through our activities. For children with high-risk neuroblastoma, like Reuben, the survival rate is much lower than other childhood cancers. Upon relapse, this rate reduces even further.
Donations and comments
Sally Murray£10.00
Donated on: 30th December 2025
For Reuben. Hopefully all these donations will help to find a cure so other children will not have to suffer
Katie Hunter £10.00
Donated on: 30th December 2025
For our dear little Reuben. Fly high beautiful boy ❤️ With love Katie craig stanley and mason xxx
Elmira Vural£100.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
In loving memory of Reuben Singh Virdee. With lots of love, Elmira Riza and Sofia
Samuel Matthewson£100.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
In loving memory of the most beautiful boy, Reuben Singh Virdee. With lots of love, Becka, Sam and Tabitha xxx
Sarah Parsons£40.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
In memory of a very special and inspirational boy. Sending love to Jess, Kul, Hari & Jia Xx
Steve Smith£50.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
We'll never walk alone... With thanks for the light, laughter and joy... Steve & Julia x
N Medhurst£20.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
Saw the ribbons, read the story. So sad. Condolences to the family and friends
Charlie Shaw £25.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
Sent with much love. Holding you all in my thoughts.
Amanda Carthy£50.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
Dear Jess, Kully, Jia and Hari. Honouring your beautiful boy today. Sending all my love Amanda
Caroline Mulcahy£25.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
Sent with love and my deepest sympathies x
Angela Harvey£50.00
Donated on: 29th December 2025
In loving memory of an amazing young warrior, Reuben. Such a true inspiration to so many of us. RIP Reubs ❤️xx
Fiona Norman£25.00
Donated on: 28th December 2025
We didn’t know you Reuben, but we have heard about how special you were. Sending your family so much love xx
Anne-Kathrin Heuer£100.00
Donated on: 28th December 2025
Reuben, how lucky were we to have you be part of our lives. Squad and Peely Patrol for life. You will forever be missed and live on in your Squad mates. You truly were one of a kind. Finn, Anne and Claude xx
Alice Kavanagh£75.00
Donated on: 28th December 2025
In loving memory of Reubs. The boys will miss looking up to you and your knowledge of cool computer games. We will miss you terribly. Uni gang meet ups will never feel the same without the no. 1 baby there. Lots of love Alice, Luke, Max & Theo xxxx
Colm Wolinski£50.00
Donated on: 27th December 2025
In memory of Reuben, a truly inspiring little boy
Mrs Nicky Rees£50.00
Donated on: 27th December 2025
Jess, Reuben’s mum works with me and I have been blown away by the strength and grace both Jess and Reuben have shown throughout his journey. They and the family are an inspiration to us all and a reminder of what’s important in life. Fly high Reuben
Laura Cook£20.00
Donated on: 27th December 2025
Rest in Peace brave Reuben. Sending lots of love xx
Ingrid Thorp£50.00
Donated on: 27th December 2025
In loving memory of a beautiful, kind, funny, clever and very brave boy. Reuben will always be an inspiration to so many xxx
Patrick Lane£50.00
Donated on: 27th December 2025
In memory of a very brave little boy Fiona and Patrick Lane
Bep Dhaliwal£25.00
Donated on: 23rd December 2025
A true warrior, Reuben you will always remain a shining light in our lives, reminding us to embrace life with a Chardikala spirit 🧡🧡🧡
Julia Smith£50.00
Donated on: 20th December 2025
In memory of a bright,funny boy who lit up lives around him. Hopefully the money raised in his name will help others. Julia and Steve
Vijay Rakkar£25.00
Donated on: 9th December 2025
From your good friend Kabir from school (7C)
Kerry Clissold£25.00
Donated on: 26th June 2025
Reuben, with Liverpool FC written through like a stick of rock one if their great fans. Reuben has the gift of a beautiful loving family around him ,I would like to be a tiny part of giving him anything he needs. We all wish you well Reuben ❤️
Stephen Nicholls£10.00
Donated on: 26th April 2024
I do hope he recovers. I contribute a lot to Cancer Research UK
Laura Thornton£58.66
Donated on: 23rd August 2019
Anonymous£155,128.00
Donated on: 13th August 2019
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